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My story
I am a domestic violence survivor and a proud mother of six. My life was shaped by a relationship that spanned 20 years, a relationship marked by high-risk coercive control, psychological torment, and physical abuse. There were countless nights when I feared I wouldn't make it through. The situation was dire, and the threat to my life was real. Living under the shadow of such profound fear and manipulation made escaping feel almost impossible. I was trapped not only by the abuser's control but also by a system that often failed to protect me when I needed it the most.
Despite the overwhelming obstacles and the emotional toll, I found the strength to leave. But leaving was just the beginning of a long and grueling battle for justice. For nearly four years, I fought tirelessly in the courts, determined to hold my abuser accountable. It was a draining process, both emotionally and physically, but I refused to give up. Finally, after years of relentless struggle, he pled guilty. It was a victory that symbolised not just justice for myself but also for my children and every woman who has ever been silenced.
Today, I channel my experience into something positive. I am deeply committed to mentoring and advocating for other women who are experiencing the horrors of domestic violence. My mission is to ensure that no woman feels as isolated or powerless as I once did. I work closely with them, providing the guidance, support, and resources they need to reclaim their lives. In addition to my advocacy work, I am honoured to serve as an advisor to the board at Women of Oz, an organization dedicated to empowering women and providing them with the tools to thrive. In this role, I contribute my insights and experiences to help shape policies and initiatives that better protect and uplift survivors. My journey has been one of unimaginable hardship, but it has also been one of resilience and transformation. I am committed to using my story to inspire change, raise awareness, and support other women as they navigate their own paths to freedom and healing.